Apologising

apologise: to offer an apology  or excuse for some fault, insult, failure,or injury: He apologized for accusing her falsely.

The need to apologise to someone when we do something wrong is something we deal with everyday, but does that mean that people have to say it every single time.

sorry: feeling regret, compunction, sympathy, pity, etc

When one apologises for something they did wrong, that is fine. However, when one apologises continuously, that may be a problem. No, not may be. It is a problem. At least for me it is. We get it, you're sorry, can you stop bringing it up? In fact, if you continuously say sorry, you are bringing up your mistakes over and over again and it makes it so much harder not to just punch you for whatever you did. It doesn't matter how small it is.

Or how about when someone apologises for something that wasn't their fault. I actually think this is worse, because when someone, or a bunch of people say sorry for something that they didn't do, or they didn't have control over, it just bugs me.

"My car got stolen," "Sorry dude"

"My brother got into a car accident," "I am so sorry"

And etc, etc. There are so many examples that one can use here. But for them to say sorry for something they didn't do. I don't know, but it just frustrates me to no end. I understand that you don't know what to say, but do you have to use the word 'sorry' or any form of apology? Really?

Or when they apologise and don't mean it. They are saying it because they feel like it needs to be said, or they are pressured into it, or they don't think they are wrong. If you don't think you are wrong in whatever fight we may have had, fine, I can respect that. But if you are saying sorry because you feel that it is what is best for whatever reason, then you can take that sorry and shove it up your ass. Just saying.

I believe that if you are going to apologise to someone there should be a legitimate reason as to why you are apologising, and I believe that you should mean what you say when you utter the words "I'm sorry." or any form of those words. But whatever, that's just what I think.

Now, I would say sorry for this rant, but the thing is, I'm not.